A lot has been written about gratitude over the past two decades and how we ought to be feeling it. There is advice for journaling and a plethora of purchasing options for gratitude notebooks and diaries. And research has consistently pointed to the health and relationship benefits of the fairly simple and cost-effective practice of cultivating gratitude. I am a social psychologist who runs the Positive Emotion and Social Behavior Lab at Gonzaga University. I teach courses focused on resilience and human flourishing. I have researched and taught about gratitude for 18 years. Generally, negative information captures attention more readily than the positive. This disparity is so potent that it's called the negativity bias. Researchers argue that this is an evolutionary adaptation: Being vigilant for life's harms was essential for survival. Gratitude is experienced as a positive emotion. It results from noticing that others ' including friends and family certainly, but also strangers,...
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